
Not every Aries is guaranteed to be kinky, but, Gat says, "this Mars-ruled sign can certainly get into BDSM." Filling out a yes-no-maybe list could totally get your Aries hot and bothered. " Tough Aries doesn't get a chance to be vulnerable every day, so keep that in mind." "Sex is a form of escape from the pressures of every-day life for Aries, and they enjoy fantasy between the sheets," Gat says. Sagittarius is a powerful warlike hunter while the Centaur, also called Chiron, is peace-loving, kind and gentle, the personification of wisdom. If you want to arouse Aries, ask them about their fantasies while sharing some of your own. Let them know it's all in jest so they can put all that pent-up frustration to good use. A friendly-but-heated debate or a good-natured roast will turn your Aries all the way on. The Mesopotamians, who introduced the constellation Sagittarius. Listen, Aries is ruled by Mars - the planet of aggression and war-like tendencies. The reality is that the centaur race is marked in myth as particularly war like and fierce. Don't be afraid to get graphic reminiscing on your sexual encounters, if you've had some already. Never mind if you're in the early stages of flirting with Aries: Pour on the lusty adoration. "But once a rapport has been established, feed their desire for passion and excitement by boldly stating how hot they are." "Being pursued too obviously at first makes them feel uncomfortable," Gat says. Once you've got Aries' attention, return their enthusiasm. The ball is now in Aries' court and they'll revel in the chance to take charge. Grab their attention with an Instagram thirst trap or a consensual mid-day sext. In fact, if you're too forward, too quickly, it's likely you'll lose their interest," writes astrologer Annabel Gat in The Astrology of Love & Sex: A Modern Compa tibility Guide. With this in mind, here's what you can do to rile up your Aries lover. Like Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn, Aries is a cardinal sign, which basically means they like calling the shots.

They're drawn to excitement and any action or person that can stoke up red-hot feelings in them. Like Leo and Sagittarius, Aries is a fire sign. If you're smitten by the Ram, there are a few turn-ons for an Aries that will totally make them sweat. Think about the charm, intellect, and passion of the Aries celebs you know and love: Reese Witherspoon, Robert Downey Jr., Lady Gaga, Paul Rudd, Chance the Rapper, and Saoirse Ronan, to name an iconic handful. But that fierceness and passion are also what draws people to them in the first place. Aries' sharp tongue, bold demeanor, and never-back-down attitude can make them a lot to handle.
